Alan Steinfeld sent: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l7AWnfFRc7g Doesn’t it seem very, very obvious? — in order for peace to prevail on earth we have to come together. Yet when we look at the state of the planet it seems impossible – doesn’t it? Don’t we seem to be a divided species? Religions, politics, science, corporations, countries, families, partners. …
A broad description of one aspect is that anger masks fear. Almost everyone has fear, so almost everyone has anger. Anger is a poison to the whole body/mind/emotional system, and as the body is a self-healing system it tries to get the anger out and away anyway it can, as soon as it can. As …
Your seemingly innocuous question is actually a statement. Most such type of questions are. It is a question that reveals your hidden rage. You think you know more than you actually do, and thus feel justified. In the seventies I used to run a group called The Encounter Group. As is usual for me, I …
A friend shared: I have a 16 year old son and I feel responsible for him. Every night he sits in front of the TV, he does nothing else. He has a lot of aggression and negative thoughts – he painted his room completely black. He says he wants to become a beggar. And it …
A friend shared: “I am a mother with two children and my little son of 14 years. I had immediately the picture it was ont he football place last sunday. And normally he is a very smart boy and then he was fouled and then after the play he went on the place and he …
Anger is a fact, not a problem. Problems are facts that are resisted. When you are angry, you are angry. Anger does not feel good so you want to escape. One way to escape is to cut off, another is to blame the other person/situation and say it is not your responsibility that you are …
When a person says they feel guilty it means: a) they are not taking responsibility for their actions, so they are feeling uncomfortable for what they have done; and: b) they resent you for re-acting. On the other side, if a person reacts at another persons actions it is a display of irresponsibility and an …