If we have any personal preferences, let alone desires, we are attaching
ourselves to repeated suffering.
Until we realise, for ourselves, that the only smooth passage is “Thy Will
be done” the struggle continues. Of course, as the ‘Thy’ is also us – so
we might as well get on with what wants to happen.
So struggling with our mind’s wants, keeps us unfulfilled.
And who knows? – maybe that is what we came here to learn this time.
I am sure you have read, many times – desire is the root of all suffering.
Any desire. Even the desire not to have a desire!
We really, really do create our own reality.
So just being with what is – unconditionally, in each moment.
Sounds simple doesn’t it. It helps to add: and not taking it seriously.