Hi Love,
You wrote:
“I think these other authors and speakers are setting the way for your information, they are laying the groundwork for your information to be more accepted in a general way… I think the main obstacle that i can see is the Power of Now refers to a witnessing of the mind, body and emotions, … and that is well received even if it is hard to attain… meaning there isn’t a threat in the way he conveys his information…… I think the majority of people, even if they are open to this information Do NOT want to be challenged on the relationship idea… Love means monogamy, relationship is the goal and the way to a meaningful life… sharing and security is what it is about…. I think this is the area that separates you from the other teachers because you take the Being in the Moment into living it as well as talking about it, and this is a challenge to hear and to watch…. Last night i had a conversation with a smart open minded friend of mine (male) and we talked about jealousy that he was experiencing and we asked some women about it as well, and the overwhelming response was it is HUMAN NATURE and there is nothing you can do about it… I said it may be human nature, but there is something you can do about it… expand to include it and accept it and alchemize it by experiencing it, i wasnt heard and maybe when i am really in love it may come back, i dont know, but at this moment it doesn’t seem to be an issue with any of my love interests… What do you think or see? Much love… ”
Good point on the approach of other authors. I keep telling myself to take it easy and be more digestible but the truth keeps popping out. Their way is easy to digest but it does not nourish, but then, nothing has ever worked in any appreciable numbers so far — although with what I am sharing one or two have had awakening and quite a few are on the edge.
The jealousy thing goes much deeper than is thought. It is part of the human basic instinct — survival of the species. At one level, with insects and the like, it is all survival of the species, colony — not even the individual. You see these little people dashing back and forth and all they are doing is feeding and breeding, and fighting to preserve the colony — not even themselves. Have you ever seen an ant stop and bask in the sun? “A poor life this, so full of care, we have not time to stand and stare. ”
As we move up in development we do see play in animals, but survival of the species is always the priority — but now it is more than the species, it is their particular individual genes. So most animals will kill to have their particular individual genes carried on. They will also kill the offspring’s of the female who has not been impregnated by them as well. Then eat them.
So we have that in us — unless you are vegetarian! When a man sees what he considers to be an attractive woman things arestrongly stirred in him. Part of him just wants to jump on her. When he moves on part of him is still disturbed — until he sees the next one. The urge is strong.
Then we have the religious conditioning. And so on. It is a long story. I will write it someday.
You are thinking jealousy may come back if you fall in love. Maybe. But now you can see the process, so it will never be the same. If it did return you could just see it as you see yourself when you have indigestion. It is nothing to do with you, just the body, mind and emotions going through some things. No pill of relief though — except a detached unconditional awareness.
Sending lots of love… paul