Short excerpt from an Audio that will be sent soon:
You cant change yourself. You cant do anything.
Anything you DO will be done from the old ideas, and produce old results.
What you can do, is be more aware of your behaviour and your habits.
Who is the one who is becoming more aware of the behaviour?
That is the one we are interested in – the one who just watches.
If this part is just watches, and it is aware, you don¹t have to change
anything. If that illuminated self, that divine self, does not approve of what the
behaviour is saying, and it is aware, the behaviour will change on its own.
If you are changing it, you are changing it with the same energy you are
doing it. The mind is attempting to change the mind, and that wont work.
If you see it from this other place and you say: ah yes, I see that,
that is not what I mean, that is not my intention – it will change on its
own. It will just drop away. But you don¹t do it, it does you.
We need to see ourselves more clearly. We need to hear, feel and sense
ourselves. It can be very embarrassing when you are starting to see your
behaviour.
There is something else that is aware of behaviour, if you want it to be.
And if we are unconditional, which means we are not trying to please or
upset somebody, we are not trying to then we will change.
Change will happen and life will become sweeter and sweeter.